Men,Women,Love,Family,Nation

Lets start from Individuals...

Consider this example. Mens are like trees. Womens are like soils.
Most of the people has 3 desires. soil, gold, women. I think if you achieve
a women love, it is equivalent to others.
The trees are always grown towards the sky and it appears as a great thing.
But it is deeply rooted in the soil. Once the soil get angry, the tree must die.
All good plants are grew in a good soils. Soils may have different seasons like birth, becoming a girl, wife, mother but men never had..
Thats why womens are always high compared with men. Particularly Our Indian womens
are good and American womens lacks behind our womens because may be the season is few.
But All men accept in their inner heart, Without women they cannot live. one word or one silence of a women can kill a generation.

Ok. Come to marriage.
Speaking about marriage i rememebered one film called PLOY..
I will explain the story
A --- Husband (Our Hero)
B --- Wife (heroine)
P -- Girl
A and B came to some country to attend some funeral. So they took one room and stayed.
At night A went to one hotel and met a girl P and asked about her.
girl P told him , that she is waiting for her mom and she will come at 5 o clock.
A told to P to come to his apartment so that she can take a nap.
P agreed and went with him.
In the room , B gets angry by seeing P.
It s their conversation:
B: You don t even allow me to stay in an room with privacy
A: She just a girl ..What bothers you. Go and Sleep in another room.
B: The more younger the more good for you.
A: She is like my daughter.. Don t speak like that..Don t disturb me..I have to read
B: Nowadays you have become stubborn. you weren t like this before.
You did n't make me feel loved.
A: I have always taken good care for u this 8 yrs
B: 7 years
A : R u in period.
B : why you have always asked like that..
A : because u always angry at that time
B : Dont change the topic. I told u u did nt make me feel loved..for example
when u loved me, you always told me ..I love You , I love You several times
A : It was 8 yr ago
B: 7 yrs ago.
A: So you want me tell I love you through all day night in this whole 7 years..
Ok..
I love you , i love you , I love you
B: Don t tell if you did n t feel

B left the room

P asked A about their fight.
P : You had a fight with your wife..
A: Don t worry.. it is sense less fight..
The more senseless our fight..the more we feel close
P: She told u , u did nt love her nowadays as much as before ur marriage
A: It was 8 yrs ago
P: So what..Is there love has any expiration date like a canned food.
A : Canned Food has some label where the expiration date printed.
Love doesn t have ..no warning ..it just expires.

Most of the times relationships sour because of the three reasons. First one is the men is always dumb and they failed to show their kindness to women. The Conversation I mentioned above belongs to the first case. Another case is the hatred. For example if some women does not love him or some bad experiences that has occured over the course of his adulthood, All those things hidden within his heart like a volcano and it starts to erupt after their marriage.
Another reason is most of our people confined to their instition they are belonging to. I personally believe People are morally pure when they are individual, Once they entered into the a institution they become corrupted. Even they carry those mindset, burden into the family.

Though there is some problems in our family, we are happy about our family because we are morally good in our nature

Then comes to our nation, you cannot find any nation with such a heterogeneous environment,but still It is a great nation where human value is a high. That’s why poor ethical values never spoiled our country.
I remembered one quote which was told by a Pakistan Politician..

Even if there is a lot of quarrels in their parliament,
There is no danger for their people.Because there s no possibility for that nation to act for a one persons whim or desire.

So We are living in a great country with great people who are the best people in our earth.

Let Our Love carry the entire world at may our peace spread this entire earth

An Open Letter

Dear Friend,

I am fine here. Hope everything is fine there. So many things had happened in this year.

You may think why I am writing this into a blog

I just want to announce it to public in the hopes of healing my injuries someway. But some how my worthless prestige never allows me to speak to any one regarding this. Even I want to write in mother tongue, but there is no enough font available or enough patience from me.

I am not going to tell you some things directly, because I don t want to hurt you in anyway.

Let me explain things briefly. As you know after graduating from the college I managed to find out job. After a year living in this false world, my hopes are faded and I am still like a tortoise, which open its head outside world very rarely. I don’t know whether I am afraid of facing the reality or the reality is cruel.

Working in a metropolitan city and spending the time alone particularly, mades me think of some needless things which is impossible to alter.

From the beginning itself, The world trained me to speak lie in different situations. First I was allowed to hesitate, then after a period of time I was forced to do it. It doesn’t mean we have never spoken those things. The Sad thing is Lie becomes an institution here. You can progress in money once you gain enough knowledge in lying, betraying and other related skills. Not only the lie, the way people (including me) leading their life is terrible. Sometimes I want to cry a lot as you did one day like a child, but even the tears seems it had dried out a long before.

Myself and my friend living in a different world, where there is no need for masks. You may remember you also lived in that world, but soon you began to move from me, by blaming your future and seeking your hopes.

No one can fill your place and somehow you disappointed me.

Now I have started to afraid of loneliness, and anticipating one day the existing friend also leave and even our world disappear like a dream. So I move hastily with the time like a piece of wood in a stream.

You may think time will heal everything, but it is a momentary and dangerous too, and at last it left some immortal scars.

I will wait for you forever.

Your Friend

Visit to Hanuman Temple

My friend kanagaraj and myself went to Shri Hanuman temple before one month.

He told me, If you pray for something to hanuman, in this temple it will be fullfilled.
All you have to do is to tie the holy strap in your hand.

So I made a list of requests, which should be submitted to hanuman.

We took a bus from parrys to pallavaram. we managed to get a seat on the rightside of the driver . I saw a old radio set near the driver.

He switched on the radio.

Radio : Aval Parandhu ponale, Ennai Marandhu ponale

The Driver played only old sad songs and philosophical songs ,mostly sung by T.M soundarrajan.

Me : Oh No, Is there any funeral session is going on?
Why this idiot playing such stupid old songs. I am sick of these songs.

From kanak I expect some response for my comment , but this fool actually enjoying the songs.

Kanak : No one can beat T.M.S in his voice till now.

Me: Idiot, This is not T.M.S voice.

Kanak: You don't know anthing about old songs. So just keep quiet.

Me: See the driver, He looks like a frustrated man, And his face suggests me life might have kicked him off.

Again No Response

Me: I am speaking to you idiot, Say something.

Kanak : So hot here.

Me: Yes.

Radio : Nallu perukku nanri, andha nallu perukku nanri

Me: Have you spoken to Kumar. He will come to Chennai at any time.

Kanak:

I already warn him not to come here. He don't know anything except eating and sleeping like a pig.

Me:

Let him come. Then only he will understand the world. I have started to think about him, By eating hotel food, he will become lean, by using this water he get some skin disease as I got.

Oh Great…

And I hope him to get all sort of diseases.

Radio:

Time 4.30. This is lovers time. You can dedicate the songs to your lovers.

Radio:

Radio:

The driver switched off immediately.

Then we got down at guindy from where we travel by train and reached the hanuman temple.

There is a lot of crowd in front of the temple and we headed toward the entrance hall to get the token.

Kanak: One token..

Me: Hey.. Buy another one for me.

Kanak : If you tie this holy strap in your hand, You must follow this instructions for 1 month..

1. No non veg items.
2. Bath twice a day
3. Never think of a girl for 4 weeks.
4. Every Saturday you must go to some hanuman temple.

Now you tell me, Do You want me to buy another ticket…

Me: Why didn't you tell these things earlier?

Kanak: You didn't asked me?

Now you tell me,You want me to buy another ticket

Me : No. Let me see your ticket.

Kanak: Don't touch the ticket.

Me: Why

Kanak :You are not pure.

So I returned to home without the holy strap and my requests remain unfullfilled.