Men,Women,Love,Family,Nation

Lets start from Individuals...

Consider this example. Mens are like trees. Womens are like soils.
Most of the people has 3 desires. soil, gold, women. I think if you achieve
a women love, it is equivalent to others.
The trees are always grown towards the sky and it appears as a great thing.
But it is deeply rooted in the soil. Once the soil get angry, the tree must die.
All good plants are grew in a good soils. Soils may have different seasons like birth, becoming a girl, wife, mother but men never had..
Thats why womens are always high compared with men. Particularly Our Indian womens
are good and American womens lacks behind our womens because may be the season is few.
But All men accept in their inner heart, Without women they cannot live. one word or one silence of a women can kill a generation.

Ok. Come to marriage.
Speaking about marriage i rememebered one film called PLOY..
I will explain the story
A --- Husband (Our Hero)
B --- Wife (heroine)
P -- Girl
A and B came to some country to attend some funeral. So they took one room and stayed.
At night A went to one hotel and met a girl P and asked about her.
girl P told him , that she is waiting for her mom and she will come at 5 o clock.
A told to P to come to his apartment so that she can take a nap.
P agreed and went with him.
In the room , B gets angry by seeing P.
It s their conversation:
B: You don t even allow me to stay in an room with privacy
A: She just a girl ..What bothers you. Go and Sleep in another room.
B: The more younger the more good for you.
A: She is like my daughter.. Don t speak like that..Don t disturb me..I have to read
B: Nowadays you have become stubborn. you weren t like this before.
You did n't make me feel loved.
A: I have always taken good care for u this 8 yrs
B: 7 years
A : R u in period.
B : why you have always asked like that..
A : because u always angry at that time
B : Dont change the topic. I told u u did nt make me feel loved..for example
when u loved me, you always told me ..I love You , I love You several times
A : It was 8 yr ago
B: 7 yrs ago.
A: So you want me tell I love you through all day night in this whole 7 years..
Ok..
I love you , i love you , I love you
B: Don t tell if you did n t feel

B left the room

P asked A about their fight.
P : You had a fight with your wife..
A: Don t worry.. it is sense less fight..
The more senseless our fight..the more we feel close
P: She told u , u did nt love her nowadays as much as before ur marriage
A: It was 8 yrs ago
P: So what..Is there love has any expiration date like a canned food.
A : Canned Food has some label where the expiration date printed.
Love doesn t have ..no warning ..it just expires.

Most of the times relationships sour because of the three reasons. First one is the men is always dumb and they failed to show their kindness to women. The Conversation I mentioned above belongs to the first case. Another case is the hatred. For example if some women does not love him or some bad experiences that has occured over the course of his adulthood, All those things hidden within his heart like a volcano and it starts to erupt after their marriage.
Another reason is most of our people confined to their instition they are belonging to. I personally believe People are morally pure when they are individual, Once they entered into the a institution they become corrupted. Even they carry those mindset, burden into the family.

Though there is some problems in our family, we are happy about our family because we are morally good in our nature

Then comes to our nation, you cannot find any nation with such a heterogeneous environment,but still It is a great nation where human value is a high. That’s why poor ethical values never spoiled our country.
I remembered one quote which was told by a Pakistan Politician..

Even if there is a lot of quarrels in their parliament,
There is no danger for their people.Because there s no possibility for that nation to act for a one persons whim or desire.

So We are living in a great country with great people who are the best people in our earth.

Let Our Love carry the entire world at may our peace spread this entire earth