Friday, February 29, 2008

The so called love

Lets start


I always allocate every month for a particular thing in the hopes of making life interesting. As you know this month is the month of love. Every year this February 14 makes me remember some events which I have passed , but the day always passes like a mirage in front of me. This year I have ended up in a deep sleep which lasts the entire day.

So What s love. It s just nothing but mutual caring. When it comes to any relation, it involves some objects. Men&women, Men&men, women&women and between animals.

Objects doesn’t matter here. I don’t know much about homosexuals and lesbians. As everyone is familiar about men and women and me too, So here I am to scribble something about it.


Let me take this chance to reveal my inner beast about womens.


See my knowledge


First Women. Girls always play the vital role here and men are just shells carrying or initiating the love passage and the girls are the ultimate decider to continue here no matter how men dragging their way. For me , the attractive and beautiful object is their hair( Am I crazy)_. I like those long hair but not necessarily deep one but it makes you feel good. There are two type of hairs, one is short and long. Girls who had long hair are always confident, calm they have all good flavours of a women, but those short hair girls are short tempered, difficult to manage at the beginning and once you get involved they always good. Both type of girls have almost same charters tics but the anger always conquered the short hair,. Short hair girls erupting volcano, while long haired ones are sleeping volcano. Both are harmless anyway.


Some bitter realities

There is a wealthy person in my village who owns a huge farm and he has only one daughter.His wife has died years ago His daughetr just fell in love with her neighborhood, and the father refuses. she committed Suicide and now the father has to decide to whom his property should be given.

Her lover married another women a year or two before. Now he has 2 childrens.

One of my best friend loved a girl In my 10 th std, One of my classmate mani fell in love with a girl. Everyone knows he is the right candidate because he is so jovial and nice to everyone. But one day the girl went to his home and told him, that she could n’t go to her home because their parents are arranging marriage to her. and they married in police station. Few years ago I came to know they are struggling to live their lives.

Most of the ones fell into the above story ,and it s difficult to tackle this.

My college mate loved a girl,(double side) from the school days itself . He did all those stuffs like the passwords of his email accounts is her name and so on. I know his love is going to be a failure, because once he succeeded in her love in his 12 th standard, he started to concentrate on his studies, eventually the girl has forgotten him, When he returned to her after finishing his college days, ….it happened as i anticipated.

Good academic performers always the worst performers in love. Now he is in U.S anyway.



The end

I don’t understand what love it is …But I am not fully agree with the persons who always told it should come in mature way. It seems to me like a trade. The true love comes when people didn't expect anything from anyone. But unfortunately those affair always has the shorted time span comparing to the mature ones.

The beautiful thing about love is not only understanding and caring but also the willingness to adapt him self or herself for their partner.


3 comments:

Sarangan said...

enna maamu,

So, finally explained my story without my name on it...ner mind....

But, girls and hair....!!!!! God.. you seem to become a scientist man..

From my experience, I can tell you... There is nothing called Love. It is just we are fooling ourselves that there is something called love and we will achieve it if we are married to some girl.... It is like peeling the onions...Finally it is not going to have anything inside....

Especially, spending time with girls would be one of the worst ways to spend your time.... Believe me... You could realize that only if you are failure..so, be happy that we are all failures...

never think about love... life is big and spend it usefully...love the world..love the nature...

Unknown said...

Damn truth.. I was speechless when I read "but those short hair girls are short tempered, difficult to manage at the beginning and once you get involved they always good" and "Good academic performers always the worst performers in love" - seems true in my case again..

Anonymous said...

Very sorry for reading your blog now..i know this is too late.
But it is actually interesting, especially at your research work on girl's hair.but u dont know about some exceptional cases like me, an erupting volcano with long hair.
Anyway, you shouldn't stop writing your blog. you have the potent, i hope.
Anticipating your new blog.